tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post4120894323267696654..comments2023-11-05T03:55:56.886-05:00Comments on Bitchy Big Brother Blog: Paranoia Will Destroy YaUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-1340348742066189702013-08-24T02:13:03.395-04:002013-08-24T02:13:03.395-04:00Dear Colette,
Yes, you are a racist. Your girl A...Dear Colette,<br /><br />Yes, you are a racist. Your girl Aaryn constantly says stuff like how all the black female contestants are "interchangeable" (dehumanizing Libra/Kalia/Monet based solely on their racial characteristics), and how they all "suck" (attacking people whom she sees solely as black). She's best pals with Gina "Nigger" Marie, she lied through her fucking teeth about how the bed-flip incident went down (which she started with her "Shaniqua" impression, which only came about because Aaryn got so offended Candice would DARE ask Aaryn her middle name!), she said they should kill a white fish if one of the "good" people was evicted, but kill a black fish if someone from the "dark side" dies (white is good, black is evil, skin color is a defining characteristic), and referred to Howard as "King Kong". Yep, calling a black man AN APE, not racist at all!<br /><br />She called Candice "Aunt Jemima" and "the help" and constantly attacked her for having once had an infection (NOT an STD), called her a liar and a thief and co-signs all of GinaMarie's hatred, bullying, and threats of violence. And this is not even the half of it.<br /><br />Yet you choose to focus on apologizing for Amanda's racial vendetta against Howard by slamming him for his pre-show interview. What should Howard have said, that he was trying to advance his modeling career? Should he have asked Jeff if Jeff really is gay (he's been faking it with Jordan for so long that you have to wonder…) and what's that like? He gave an interview about being a minority, and you want to shred him for it…while babying those who have CONSTANTLY spewed hatred and bigotry and misogyny and "jokes" about murdering Jessie and sodomizing her corpse and "jokes" about enjoying kiddie porn and denying that Holocaust ever took place and praising the Nazi doctors and saying that black people smell and so do Puerto Ricans, but it's okay because I'm a Jew from NY and I fucked a Puerto Rican guy once, I can't be racist!<br /><br />Wrong. Aaryn is a racist, GinaMarie is a racist, Spencer is a racist, and your precious Amanda is a racist. And those who make apologies for racists and attack people for calling racism out (like Andy, Helen and YOU) are just as racist. Fuck you.<br /><br />I came here to catch up on your blog, which is normally funny and which I can't read in real-time because I don't like to be spoiled, but you have not merely jumped the shark this year, you have stacked an entire Sea World full of sharks on top of each other and jumped all of them at once. Your bizarre defense of Willie Hantz last season was troubling, but this is just sad.<br /><br />And before your little minions "play the race card" and claim I'm an Angry Black or some shit, I'm an (ex-)Jew from New York, New York, New York, just like the producer's BFF/plant/pet, Amanda. I hope Grodner is paying you good money to talk up her girl. What's the going rate for integrity these days, anyway?<br /><br />DanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-32535310738564660242013-08-03T21:10:16.948-04:002013-08-03T21:10:16.948-04:00Amanda keeps going up! I have zero influence. Sorr...Amanda keeps going up! I have zero influence. Sorry.Colette Lalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17368801666455054087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-89741643608738877662013-08-03T13:10:27.111-04:002013-08-03T13:10:27.111-04:00I always love that the same people who call out ot...I always love that the same people who call out others for name-calling resort to it when it's convenient for them. Apparently, I am a "sad, delusional tool" for being gay in the Midwest. It's only when we all recognize either that all usages of slurs is off-limits (that means YOU as well, rappers) or that we have true freedom of speech that we'll get past this selfish environment of perpetual indignation. The fact is that Aaryn, in spite of her despicable and casual racism, is a much better player than Candice. The other fact is that VaGina, in spite of her equally despicable racism, isn't being made out to be as ugly as Aaryn, although she should be. Again, dear Colette, I'm truly sorry that your good (and funny) name is being dragged through the mud by ignorant hatemongers whose raison d'etre seems to be whipping up righteous indignation with the frequency most people reserve for bathroom breaks. For whom are you rooting right now?<br />DavidAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-27611003268396088062013-08-02T01:32:23.645-04:002013-08-02T01:32:23.645-04:00Oh, Colette... I live for your Elissa impressions,...Oh, Colette... I live for your Elissa impressions, both written out phoenetically in your blog posts and on the Big Brother Gossip podcast. Sunday is my birthday, and if I could have anything, I would wish for a happy birthday phone call and/or shout-out from you as Elissa. Not Elissa accepting America's MVP vote, though... more like passive-aggressive Elissa being forced to wish Aaryn happy birthday, and also tell her she's pretty and thin.<br /><br />One can always dream. In the meantime, feel free to recap anything and everything Elissa does. It's a highlight of a podcast that's already loads of fun.<br /><br />Get a liiiife,<br />Paul<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02324801204577150676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-75127169890065249682013-08-02T00:51:22.110-04:002013-08-02T00:51:22.110-04:00Give me a break. "As a gay man in the Midwes...Give me a break. "As a gay man in the Midwest" you are just a sad delusional tool. You sure as hell wouldn't just get over it if you were subjected to repeated gay slurs and violent behavior.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-7382496347137313642013-08-01T08:56:01.313-04:002013-08-01T08:56:01.313-04:00Did I hear Aryan say that Candice has been the rea...Did I hear Aryan say that Candice has been the reason for all of her problems since entering the BB House?!! People PLEASE stop making excuses for Aryan. She needs to be held responsible for her actions inside and outside of the House.<br /><br />dbAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-40179664170962707242013-08-01T08:03:37.409-04:002013-08-01T08:03:37.409-04:00But Candace did take the higher road! After the ev...But Candace did take the higher road! After the event and aaryn apologized, she took it. She even went to GM. Yeah she was still mad at them but she didn't bring it up. The only reason she's bringing it up now is cause last week everyone disliked Aaryn andwanted her out cause of her behavior. Now since Aaryn is HoH the same ppl who were against her are now sucking up and now Candice has the target. Candice is wondering how did someone who did horrible things and even flipped her bed now is BFFs with her (C) alliance and they are now targeting her. She's bringing it up cause she thinks the HGs must forgot what Aaryn did. Gamewise I don't care for Candice (heck all the HGs I'm not too fond of), but I do not think she's playing victim or whatever. Well in a literal sense, I guess technically she is wearing the victim role, but I don't think it's a bad thing and I think anyone who went through what she went through would do the same. But it just seems like now, everything is always Candice fault #BlameCandiceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-37861661637188418142013-07-31T23:52:38.210-04:002013-07-31T23:52:38.210-04:00Who said anything about forgetting or forgiving? W...Who said anything about forgetting or forgiving? What Candice should do is rob her attackers of their power over her (rather than provide them further fodder to label her as they are wont to do) by pardoning them and killing them with kindness. As a gay man in the Midwest, I know what it feels like to be bullied, discriminated against, labeled, and tormented, but I also know that the quickest way to deflate a bully's sails is to show that bully's audience (and all bullies need an audience) that you both pity and pardon the evildoer's behavior. The one thing Howard did that makes me like him---if not as a player then as a person---was remove Candice from the room and talk her out of a Chima-like meltdown. He was correct when he said that the easy route would have been an all-out counterattack...and that he would have been labeled the Angry Black Man and would have been ejected. Look, there's no doubt that Candice is entitled to her hurt feelings (don't we all carry scars from our past experiences with bullies?), but her attitude is going to earn her a fast pass out the door if she doesn't learn some better coping mechanisms. In terms of the game, she's a truly dreadful player whose only card to play is to intimidate everyone with her passive-aggressive, pitiable victimhood. Maybe that will save her this week, or maybe that will be the trait that convinces the rest to send her packing. Honestly, it doesn't matter which one of them leaves this week. As long as the Howard/Candice no-mance ends, it'll be safe(r) to watch the feeds again. (Their endless, murmured, incomprehensible conversations make me long for the days of the Brenchel emotional roller coaster...and that's saying something! At least with Brenchel, I never got the unpleasant sensation that Brendan was just stringing Rachel along for some semblance of safety in the house.) Moreover, Candice keeps harping on what a good life she has at home; let's hope she returns to that haven soon and removes herself from the glare of people along with whom she clearly does not get.<br />DavidAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-58485331277812367952013-07-31T23:17:40.632-04:002013-07-31T23:17:40.632-04:00I don't think Candice can "just forget&qu...I don't think Candice can "just forget" the mattress incident. Even though she did forgive the girls who verbally attacked her and even comforted GM right after the event, she's not gonna just get over it. It HURTS deep to be attacked because of your race (I'm a black woman and it happens and it hurts). Call me stupid, ugly, dumb, any mean thing whatever and it'll roll down my back like it's nothing or I'll soon forget it. But when someone says something racial, that cuts deep and takes forever and sometimes never go away. Its not something you can just forgive and forget.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-41745585307097109732013-07-31T23:09:28.328-04:002013-07-31T23:09:28.328-04:00Also, there is no set way to play BB. You just hav...Also, there is no set way to play BB. You just have to make it to the end and be the last one standing by any means possible. Heck Jordan wasn't a good player, was a floater, not the sharpest in the knife drawer, and didn't seem to know what was going on, but she was likable and some kinda way made it to the end and won! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-66308305698246964492013-07-31T23:04:54.827-04:002013-07-31T23:04:54.827-04:00You cant categorize a whole race by saying "t...You cant categorize a whole race by saying "they [blacks] are terrible at it [this game]". Marcellus and Lawon didnt suck at the game because they were black. They sucked cause they made bad decisions, something that a lot of people in this game do (make bad decisions). Everyone of all races have different personalities and anyone can be "good" or "bad" at this game. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-41414520957840456822013-07-31T20:09:00.723-04:002013-07-31T20:09:00.723-04:00First and foremost, dearest Collette, you are not ...First and foremost, dearest Collette, you are not racist but merely the umpteenth target of brutish thugs who believe the quickest way to discredit someone who acknowledges race is to call him or her a racist. While acknowledging racial difference isn't racist, attacking another person for acknowledging it while daring to be of a different race IS (chew on that, you thin-skinned whiners). Second, and on a related note, since when has it been appealing to be proudly and vocally victimized/slighted/wronged in any way? To wit, Candice has ceaselessly retold the mattress story as a defense of Howard without seeming to grasp that, while the entire episode was revolting, it was a chance for her to be the bigger person she always claims to be. Instead of shaking it off, pardoning her attackers (thereby robbing them of the power and delight bullies derive from bullying), she has repeatedly clung to that (admittedly nasty) incident to the point that it's become her version of VaGina's Nick obsession: she trots it out in an almost fetishistic manner to accuse another or excuse her own bad behavior. (To Howard's credit, despite his extreme dullness, he doesn't haul out that chestnut. He should still be sent packing for being so unrelentingly boring, however.) Riding on her own victimhood high is Jessie, whose craven, desperate neediness and incessant whining constantly force me to return to our initial exposure to her on this season's first episode, when she announced in what she probably thought was a confident tone that girls always dislike her because of her beauty and personality (just makes you want to shake your head in disbelief at her utter lack of self-awareness). Elissa is a well-documented mess, but I have yet to see one instance in which she's been victimized. Did I miss something? Has she ever been attacked for something she's NOT legitimately done? Perhaps it's just endemic to the game, but I don't recall such a massive amount of self-pity and ostentatious victimhood among so many players. <br /><br />Having said all that, I will not stop watching or reading this blog, because it's by far the most entertained I've been by Big Brother since before Brenchel. Collette, PLEASE don't let a few hatemongers bring you down! <br />David Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-52875780870814334192013-07-31T19:23:07.783-04:002013-07-31T19:23:07.783-04:00@Cellulitis, agree with you 100% - they are not go...@Cellulitis, agree with you 100% - they are not good players.<br /> <br />Howard DOES use the race/religion card and it annoys the sh#t out of me. <br />He couldn't go confront the mean girls when they were picking on Candice because "it would be wrong for a black man to confront 3 white women", but when his ass is in danger he'll expect the same girl that he didn't have the balls to defend go do his dirty work. <br /><br />Love your blog Colette :) Please ignore the people who call you a racist -- evidently they have an IQ which comes second to that of a goldfish. Boo hoo to them. Love Amanda too, she is a strong, awesome player. Hope she wins. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-35872894134550446082013-07-31T16:27:20.342-04:002013-07-31T16:27:20.342-04:00I’m starting to think the real racists here are th...I’m starting to think the real racists here are the producers of BB. Howard and Candice don’t seem to have any concept of how to play this game. They are terrible at it and it seems to be the same every year. Think of who are considered the worst players in BB history, Marcellus and Lawon. I know there are lots of AA folks out there who could and would be good at this game. How come the producers of BB never seem to find any of them. Celulitisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-40631216355224804522013-07-31T15:28:18.497-04:002013-07-31T15:28:18.497-04:00Girl, you know I love you but I have to call you o...Girl, you know I love you but I have to call you out on this race card mess. Howard saying he's African American isn't using a race card - it's a fact. It's like saying someone has blue eyes or blonde hair. In addition, saying something is a racist remark isn't using the race card either. An example of using the race card would be if Howard were appealing to the HG that he should stay because of the racism he's had to deal with in the house. He hasn't done anything like that. Shoot I say I'm a black woman all the time. To me it's like when someone says they're Italian American, because it's part of their identity. I recognize that race/ethnicity isn't something that is part of everyone's identity, but for some people like Howard, who grew up in the South, it's a huge part of who he is. I don't think there's anything wrong with that and I'm not sure why people are uncomfortable with folks talking about their identity.<br /><br />I also hope you'll watch statements like "Blacks are attacking me..." like you said last night on Twitter after the he said/she said crap from the Howard/Amanda incident. Yes, I acknowledge that there were Black people (or people with Black profile pictures) who were giving you a hard time. But to make a blanket statement like that is just going too far. I saw every race on both sides of the issue, so I found your statements a little hurtful, and frankly it seemed like you were playing the race card.<br /><br />Now do I think you're a racist? Absolutely not. I think you and your blog kick ass. It's been hard to read you excuse some deplorable behavior from the houseguests but I know in your heart of hearts you're not racist. Just wanted to put my 2 cents in.Allinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-89840779387521493812013-07-31T05:52:28.907-04:002013-07-31T05:52:28.907-04:00I'm not sure I can't put my finger on it b...I'm not sure I can't put my finger on it but I think McStrange don't know. I'm not sure what it is that he don't know but whatever it is he seems pretty sure that he don't know. I feel like I should know but I don't know what he don't know. I keep hoping Xmanda will tell him what he don't know but I don't know if she knows what he don't know but I know I don't know. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-6203728678641741902013-07-31T00:55:23.624-04:002013-07-31T00:55:23.624-04:00ColetteLala~
Long time reader, 1st time poster to ...ColetteLala~<br />Long time reader, 1st time poster to this bitchy-ass blog - lol! I have a lot of opinions but for today I'll try to keep it to a minimum. I've been a huge BB fan since Season 1 (I missed a few seasons due to work...Seasons 11 and 9 were a couple I didn't follow religiously. Last year and this year I've fortunately had the time (& energy) to watch BBAD & the episodes on CBS. I don't have the feeds; I personally am unable to get them. Trust me, I've tried. <br /><br />Anyhoo, I just love love �� your nicknames for the cast members. My thoughts: Elvira (Elissa) is a plant in the house to boost ratings and mess with the game. Andy is HILARIOUS and like Mr. "Sneaky-Sneaky" in the Adam Sandler film, Mr. Deeds; he pops in and out of rooms faster than the witch sisters apparate on Charmed. I agree with some who say he's a master floater, yet he's the floater that can lie without a problem. He talks and talks and talks to everyone, but is charming in his own slightly feminine way. Andy's one of my faves. Amanda and McCrae cracked me up for a while, but finding out Amanda is/was an aspiring producer/actor/singer kind of blew it for me...just a little. Helen's mouth is too big for her own good. She doesn't think first, she just talks, but she is the "house mom", which is expendable as we have seen with past seasons. Jessie complains too much about being all alone and seems like a crybaby; I'm not impressed with her. Howard and Candice were treated with disrespect by several members of the house, came through it ok, but this past week played too hard and blew it (unless they can pull off a MIRACLE by tomorrow). Judd won HOH too early and doesn't seem ;) to be playing hard, but is sort of charming in a way. He's hard to understand on BBAD sometimes, so LOL with the mumbling jabs!! Spencer is horrible at endurance stuff, and is kind of a creeper...stuff he says about Jessie (x-rated) makes me a little sick. My pics and faves this season are Andy and Amanda/McCrae. Hope they're top 3.<br /><br />I didn't mention the race stuff because it's been mentioned to the point of overkill everywhere I look. Every day. Still. ��Let them deal with it when they get back home. <br /><br />I could say more but it is time to chill for this evening. <br />Thank you, Lala for your most entertaining updates!! Keep up the good work!! ��<br /><br />~catty~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-75285126838255118722013-07-31T00:37:35.303-04:002013-07-31T00:37:35.303-04:00Collette... Thanks for the "winner" repl...Collette... Thanks for the "winner" reply. I can't win the lotto, but at least I can win somewhere. :)<br /><br />I have a WHOOPSIE fix from the Thorny Balls post... My husband pointed out that I shouldn't respond when I can get distracted... so I will repost the links to YouTube for Elissa and Judd for you to view.<br /><br />Elissa - She mmmmmhmmmmn's so much... she reminds me of Karl FROM SLINGBLADE and here is a link for your viewing pleasure at 2:50 in the clip http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yv6KFRleUG0<br /><br />JuDD - mumbles (but love him and want him for the win) Please to see what I mean at around 32 seconds in. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEWgs6YQR9A ROFLMAO!<br /><br />Oh... I mentioned the BB Strategic Talk chat room in the live feeds in it too... FYI Shelly and Ian hang out there pretty much everyday with occasional hits from Evel Dick. It gets its share of Cat Ladies but there are some great posters otherwise.<br /><br />Obviously I love your blog and I have passed out your link in the room and most of the regulars listened to you on the BB Gossip podcast this week and loved it as well.<br /><br />StackedInFLLaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10891657908781119749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-28983636475344307682013-07-30T20:26:47.817-04:002013-07-30T20:26:47.817-04:00Collette! I'm a new listener to your podcast a...Collette! I'm a new listener to your podcast and I just went back and listened to episode #304 and I really enjoyed hearing your perspective on "bed gate". Thanks for all the entertainment and I definitely following your bb blog now...much better written and more entertaining than the bb blog I was previously checking. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14745826669265448480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-85011777077614954762013-07-30T19:42:06.128-04:002013-07-30T19:42:06.128-04:00Collette it is not the fact that you are now suppo...Collette it is not the fact that you are now supporting Aaryn, but that you are using the power of the pen to vilify Howard for saying he would like to be the first AA to win BB.<br /><br />You criticize Howard for being a boring player. But do tell, how is Howard more boring than Andy and Judd, or for that matter Jessie and McCrae?<br /><br />Further, you criticize Production for controlling the game. But how is that different from you influencing your followers (one-million plus) to vote for those you dislike.<br /><br />I am a fan of yours, but right now a disappointed fan.<br /><br />darlyne<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-13685376296675201222013-07-30T19:31:47.171-04:002013-07-30T19:31:47.171-04:00I don't know if you are a racist or not but yo...I don't know if you are a racist or not but you certainly are pretty damn stupid. The reason race was brought up in the diary room is that the Neanderthal house guests were throwing around Nigger like it was hello. Including your new best friend "Aryan" who deserves to have her life ruined. What is wrong with wanting to be the first of anything to do something? He didn't come into the room in a bow tie selling bean pies and went out of his way to have Candice chill out. You are a fool!!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-6672301938694203552013-07-30T18:45:07.637-04:002013-07-30T18:45:07.637-04:00What did her letter from home say?What did her letter from home say?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-16569992871338332182013-07-30T17:01:46.097-04:002013-07-30T17:01:46.097-04:00I agree with you about Aryan but you're still ...I agree with you about Aryan but you're still giving Xmanda a good edit! She is Bat Shit Crazy at this point. She may go home this week because she is so mentally weak. If production had any plans to make Xmanda the winner they now know that's impossible. She can not handle the pressure of the game even a little bit and that is entertaining as shit! Celulitisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-55239122441719040322013-07-30T16:18:52.508-04:002013-07-30T16:18:52.508-04:00McCrae reminds me of Goofy...McCrae reminds me of Goofy...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01732545165349782337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8696956501899082579.post-31517216232104571622013-07-30T14:32:52.974-04:002013-07-30T14:32:52.974-04:00What I'm learning from reading these comments ...What I'm learning from reading these comments and a few other online sites is that everybody should shut up but your own personal favorite. And everybody should agree that your own personal favorite should be everybody else's. Meh. If I have to endure Elissa's Oxy voice, or Helen's rapid-fire retells of the same stories a million times, you guys have to sit through Amanda's demands. They've all got faults.Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09862836325733020001noreply@blogger.com